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« on: March 08, 2012, 04:11:41 PM » |
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...but I've been rather quiet on here recently. Basically I've been going through a tough break-up with the missus. It's been hard, it's hit me hard, but overall I think it's the best outcome for both of us. Anyway, apologies for being out of action (as if anyone actually noticed! lol) and I hope to be more active again soon  |
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« Reply #1 on: March 08, 2012, 04:15:29 PM » |
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I'm really sorry to hear about your break up, I don't think it's ever easy even if you know it's the right thing I hope you're ok ..
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« Reply #2 on: March 08, 2012, 04:17:38 PM » |
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I remember you from my first day here, I think...  You were really nice  Never nice with a break-up.. Been there more than once...  Head high, positive thinking and if you need someone to blurt thing out ( usually it helps to say all the things you're thinking of to a person you don't know ), just PM me... You see, my shoulders are very slim, so all the troubles of the world just slips right off of them  Hope you're doing better Tessie |
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« Reply #3 on: March 08, 2012, 05:19:13 PM » |
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Oh Lordy -- I am so, so sorry to hear that. No matter the circumstances, it is ALWAYS hard and I truly feel for you! Please know that my sincere thoughts are with you! And yes, I did notice your absence. Also have noticed Tiddler's absence.
Anytime you wanna talk -- you know my PM!
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« Reply #4 on: March 08, 2012, 05:36:15 PM » |
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Sorry to hear about your break up.
Been there but it can work out, wife number two is a lot better person than the first & I see the kids all the time although they are grown up now.
It’s easy for others to say things like don’t let it bother you but I know it is upsetting.
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« Reply #5 on: March 08, 2012, 05:42:18 PM » |
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+1 on what cyborg said...
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« Reply #6 on: March 08, 2012, 07:08:06 PM » |
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Posted by: lordy Posted on: Today at 04:11:41 PM...but I've been rather quiet on here recently.
Basically I've been going through a tough break-up with the missus. It's been hard, it's hit me hard, but overall I think it's the best outcome for both of us.
Anyway, apologies for being out of action (as if anyone actually noticed! lol) and I hope to be more active again soon "Oh!! lordy I'm so sorry my heart go's out to you love  ....I know exactly how you feel, I've been their and words can't describe how painful it is....it feels like the end of your world while every one else's continues....you can't eat sleep or think strait. Hang in their dear and keep communicating it will get better in time. Two weeks after my marriage broke up, two Jehovah witnesses knocked on my door....their very first words were..."What do you think of the state of the world today madam?!! Without even thinking, I replied...I don't know about your world but mine has just collapse around my ears, the look on their faces was priceless  ....and they beat a hasty retreat. Mind you I didn't see the funny side of it until a few hours later. Yes I have noticed your absence as well as a few other regulars. If you feel like talking you can PM me also....like MizzSvensson said "it's easier to let it all out to some one you don't know". Some one who has been in the same position but makes no judgments, just listens. Tina
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« Reply #7 on: March 08, 2012, 07:15:00 PM » |
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Posted by: lordy Posted on: Today at 04:11:41 PM...but I've been rather quiet on here recently.
Basically I've been going through a tough break-up with the missus. It's been hard, it's hit me hard, but overall I think it's the best outcome for both of us.
Anyway, apologies for being out of action (as if anyone actually noticed! lol) and I hope to be more active again soon "Oh!! lordy I'm so sorry my heart go's out to you love ....I know exactly how you feel, I've been their and words can't describe how painful it is....it feels like the end of your world while every one else's continues....you can't eat sleep or think strait. Hang in their dear and keep communicating it will get better in time. Two weeks after my marriage broke up, two Jehovah witnesses knocked on my door....their very first words were..."What do you think of the state of the world today madam?!! Without even thinking, I replied...I don't know about your world but mine has just collapse around my ears, the look on their faces was priceless ....and they beat a hasty retreat. Mind you I didn't see the funny side of it until a few hours later. Yes I have noticed your absence as well as a few other regulars. If you feel like talking you can PM me also....like MizzSvensson said it's easier to let it all out to some one you don't know who has been in the same position but makes no judgments, just listens. Tina I have never been married, but I have trouble with loving people... When I finally do love them, I can't ever stop. It takes me FOREVER to open up and all that... It hurts like h*ll when it doesn't work out. Whether you've ever been married or not - the feeling is horrid... I hate seing others go through it, and even though I don't know Lordy, I would do almost anything to make sure, that his pain is eased... I sound naiv, I know. But I hate when there's a broken heart... |
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« Reply #8 on: March 08, 2012, 08:16:06 PM » |
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Actually.. I HAD noticed.. but then, people come and go all the time on here.. dive in and out.. you know. I myself dissapeared for 5 months when I moved house!   Sorry to hear you're stuck in the rough at the moment mate.. I guess we've all been there at one time or another and it's never easy. Hope you manage to make it out the other side soon. I the meantime, we will all be in the usual place for chat and nonsense as needed! Cheers |
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« Reply #9 on: March 08, 2012, 08:41:38 PM » |
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Sorry to hear that Lordy...been there, done that, came out the other side and, although it may not seem like it at the moment, you will too mate! Know that you have many friends here, even if we've never met face to face, as well as your more local friends, and friends will see you through the roughest of times.
Best wishes....happy vaping!
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« Reply #10 on: March 08, 2012, 08:49:47 PM » |
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Sorry to hear, always a tough thing going through a break up.
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« Reply #11 on: March 08, 2012, 09:10:35 PM » |
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Sorry to hear that Lordy
Although I'm a newbie and we don't know each other if you want
someone to shout at and take all your frustrations out on or just
a friendly ear, I'm your man.
Like all have said before you will come out the other end mate.
Pm me if you want my number anytime
Keep your chin up
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« Reply #12 on: March 09, 2012, 02:08:42 AM » |
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Very sorry about the break up. I had quite some myself. Two marriages , many love affairs. But strangely at the end all is working out. We do not know why things happen and all of us have to go through pains once in a while. There is a power which/who stands behind everything and that's where I go in times of distress. I am glad you shared with us and I hope you will get through the distress and come out whole on the other side. All my love............
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« Reply #13 on: March 09, 2012, 03:40:30 AM » |
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Very sorry to hear of your break up. I've gone thru many myself and they hurt... the last more than any as I was with her for many many years. Everything eventually gets better though... time is the greatest healer of all.
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« Reply #14 on: March 09, 2012, 11:32:54 AM » |
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Sorry to hear about the break up. Keep your chin up m8 hope it all works out.
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